Many people feel stuck in their lives and blame their stuck state on something external to them that “causes” them to feel stuck. That something can be arbitrary, such as “unhappy childhood”, an “unpleasant event”, a sense of incapability or any other “obstacle” that is seen as external to oneself. It feels bad and it feels real. It is so real sometimes that the entire moment right now is defined by the block.
“Your brain is an amazing creative machine. always creating. Unless you direct if towards something it will randomly create whatever if finds the easiest to create. Take control of your brain and design your life.”