IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORTH SAVING?
Before you decide to end a relationship, ask yourself the questions below. Answer those with the intent of getting really clear about the state of your relationship.
“It takes two to tango” and your part is as important as theirs. Before making hasty decisions, you need to go through a thorough assessment of where you are at, and decide IF you have been playing your part.
You may discover, you need to make some changes to improve te relationship. Also, once you had answered these questions, you will gain clarity whether you want to remain in this relationship. Once you decided you don’t want to remain, you will be able to leave guilt free. If you decide you want to remain, you will have a platform from which to build a more satisfying relationship.
NLP Questions to assess your relationship and decide is its worth saving
What is it you need right now to feel happy and at peace?
What is it I need right now to feel happy and at peace?
What is it I can do for you right now to make this moment more satisfying (happier) for you?
What is it we need the most, right now, to feel happy with each other?
Can we feel happy with one another?
What was it we shared that created happiness in this relationship when it first developed?
How can I help you feel understood by me?
How can I facilitate you feeling loved and honored by me?
How can I acknowledge you such that you feel acknowledged?
How can I communicate my needs to you such that you understand what they are?
What is it I need to feel, know, understand, right now to know and feel we understand each other?
What is it I need right now to feel happy in this relationship?
What is it I need to do to communicate with you such that we understand each other?
What is it I really want in this relationship?
What is it I want for you in this relationship, in life?
Who do I want to be for you in this relationship and in life?
How do I achieve that right now?
What is it I need to understand about you in order to relate optimally with you?
What is it I need you to understand about me so you can communicate with me from a position of understanding me?
What is it I like about myself?
What is it I like, appreciate about you?
What do I believe are the qualities in this relationship that make it worthwhile to remain in it?
What would I like this relationship top be like, optimally, such that both of us are happy remaining together?
Where are we going with it? What vision if any, are we sharing?
What is good about right here, right now, in this relationship?
What can we do together to relate with each better?
How can we accommodate each other in our differences?
How can I bring the best in you supporting you to express yourself fully in life and in this relationship?
What is the best I perceive in you?
What is the best me I would like you to experience?
AM I THE WAY I WANT YOU TO BE?
Do I want to remain in this relationship?
(If you chose to remain)- What is the first action step I will take to make a positive change in this relationship?
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