Saying NO can be the most challenging thing to do. The fear underlying this difficulty is fear of rejection.
Typically we are scared of offending someone, or we fear them getting angry. We are paralyzed by our fear, and keep on saying yes when we deeply feel we should be saying NO. As a result we compromise our own well being, and become hypocritical.
The ability to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity as sugar or coffee. And I will pay more for that ability, than for any other under the sun....
Becoming a CEO of your life means saying “yes” to relationships that build you up and activities that enhance your expression as an ultimate being. It also means being able to say “no” to people and situations that consume your energy. Being a CEO of your own life means asking yourself the ultimate question; “Am I the way I know I know I could be”?
NLP is a great tool to enhance your life skills coaching practice. You can massively benefit from learning NLP is you are serious about becoming a powerful coach.
“All problems stem from a perceived lack of choice, and a self – induced focus in that perception. Take a deep breath, zoom out of the confinement of this belief, take a new look from a wider perspective. The answers shall become immediately obvious.”