Saying NO can be the most challenging thing to do. The fear underlying this difficulty is fear of rejection.
Typically we are scared of offending someone, or we fear them getting angry. We are paralyzed by our fear, and keep on saying yes when we deeply feel we should be saying NO. As a result we compromise our own well being, and become hypocritical.
The ability to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity as sugar or coffee. And I will pay more for that ability, than for any other under the sun....
Our schools system is fundamentally broken. The approach to teaching is broken. The system is focused o creating memorized “semi-learning”, devoid of creative thought or logical thinking.Moral foundation has been removed, replaced by “anything goes” approach, where political correctness has become absurd.
NLP is a great tool to enhance your life skills coaching practice. You can massively benefit from learning NLP is you are serious about becoming a powerful coach.